Jim Matheny ‘did whatever was needed in church:’ Editor remembers father

PARAGOULD, Ark. (BNC) by J. Randal Matheny — After my dad’s passing on July 13, I asked my mom for one thing that belonged to him: his shoe brush, acquired while he was in the Army, into the top of which was etched what must have been Dad’s military nickname, “Jim Arkey.”

That shoe brush represents one of the memories I have of my dad. Every Sunday morning, while he watched Batsell Barrett Baxter speak on the “Herald of Truth” program, he would polish and shine his shoes with that brush. That simple act exemplifies for me the preparation he often made for spiritual efforts.

For every church meeting in the Stonewall community, in northern Greene County, we arrived 30 minutes early. Dad would turn on heaters or air conditioning, shovel snow, greet people as they streamed in. He maintained that practice all his life.

James Matheny, 1931-2015

James Matheny, 1931-2015

Even with his limited education, my dad did whatever was needed in church. He led singing and prayer, taught Bible class, made repairs on the building. In later years, he led devotionals and offered the invitation. At the Stonewall congregation, he served as treasurer. At Center Hill, in Paragould, he worked many years with the benevolence program.

When I was young, and people asked me what I wanted to do when I grew up, Dad would beat me to the answer, if he was nearby. “I hope he’ll make a preacher,” he’d say without hesitation. In spite of my protests then, I wound up fulfilling his hopes.

Dad encouraged me to study. He saw my interest in books and pointed to education as a means of a better life. He desired for me opportunities that he did not have.

In spite of limited opportunities, Dad put his own mind to use. He started at the hospital as an orderly, worked up to a career as a respiratory therapist, was named head of the Pulmonary Department, and was then confirmed as department head when the Cardiology Department was joined to the former.

His work ethic was impeccable. For years Dad drove a Karmann Ghia that allowed him to trek the roads into town over snow and ice, when other vehicles slid into the ditches.

I wrote earlier this year about “The Blessings of Growing Up in a Christian Home.” My parents were active in evangelism and church planting. And when one congregation where we met embraced false doctrine and refused correction, our family left and started driving to a congregation in another town some miles away. The truth of the gospel wasn’t a mere concept or ideal, but something to be practiced and shared.

By the time I was immersed at age 14, these truths were embedded in my spiritual DNA. They have served me well for the 30 years we have worked in Brazil. I sought to pass them on to my children.

Dad’s shoe brush reminds me not only of clothes prepared for a church meeting, but of a life dedicated to serving to the best of his ability. I pray mine may be worthy of his.

Jim Matheny’s funeral obituary can be accessed here.

Randal and his wife Vicki have lived and worked in Brazil since Nov. 1984. They have three children, two daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren. He likes to read novels in his back-porch hammock. http://randal.us

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14 Comments

  1. Very sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. In our 2 years at Paragould both of your parents were such an encouragement to me. Your mom even checked on us during inclimate weather here after we moved to OKC. When I think of salt and light, it’s people like your parents I think of.

  2. ole olsen

    Randal…. What a great account of your dad’s faithfulness! I also remember my father as he labored 42 years for the Cotton Belt Railroad, wearing common khakis during the work week….. but on the Lord’s Day, a suit along with a white press shirt with his favorite tie. I as you, have tried to be worthy examples to my children, grandchildren and extended family… as my father was to me! You do not forget parents that are both faithful to the Lord and His written Word….

  3. What a wonderful testimony of a life lived to the fullest. God bless and comfort your family.

  4. You’ve certainly made a preacher, brother. You’ve written a great story of powerful influence for God.

  5. Randal, So sorry to hear of your dad’s passing, but I rejoice to know that he was a faithful servant of God. Just think of the joy we will have when we once again meet our loved ones in heaven, serving our Creator for all eternity. May God continue to bless and comfort you and your family during this time of great loss.

  6. Randal, you have written of your father what every father, who is a Christian, desires that his children would be able to write of him. It is the simple things one does that remind us of the great things. Thanks for the story!

  7. Thank you all for your kind comments. We feel blessed, in every way. It was a good today, with friends and family.

  8. Richard S

    So sorry for your loss. Your story about your dad is a tribute to a man dedicated to Christ and his family.

  9. Timothy Hall

    Randal, how blessed you were to have such a father! I enjoyed reading about his life; one that others might call simple, but one the Lord will call exemplary. Thank you for sharing him with us, and may he live on in your own life and ministry.

  10. Alfred Beyan

    Randal! Sorry for the lost of your Dad. Great fathers who will set for his children in the Lord’s church is what needed. May all faithful parents help their children to knowGod.

  11. Polishing shoes while listening to BBB. Brush had his first name and prossibly more than one Jim in the platoon so he identified further, Arkey, the Jim from Arkansas.

  12. Judy Lambert

    Very sweet article. I enjoyed talking to Jim when he helped out at the Children’s Homes. He was a quiet, kind and wonderful man.

  13. Sands

    Sorry to hear about your loss. What a wonderful tribute to your father…

  14. What a blessing he was to you. My step-father died June 28th, and I did his funeral on July 11th.

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